If you’re in a management or leadership position, you’ve likely experienced this: You bring on a young and promising new hire to drive productivity, and boy, do they deliver. They take pride in their work, care about the mission and their output is off the charts. It’s an increase in effort that you haven’t seen in a long time, and you are thrilled. In your mind, you’ve struck gold.
However, as time passes, the newbie’s attitude starts to shift. They are easily irritated, take days to answer emails, their output drops, they’re noticeably less engaged in team meetings and they’re no longer the energetic racehorse you hired. Eventually, after only a couple of years (or less), they jump ship.
What I’ve just described is known as the “burnout arc.” Research indicates that in our increasingly fast-paced work environment, with ever-rising revenue goals, always-on technology and ever-increasing workloads, our talented employees are burning out at alarmingly high rates. So much so that Business Coaching San Diego recently reported the economic fallout from the burnout epidemic to be over $300 billion globally.
So, what can you do? Multiple studies (including this one by the Harvard Business Review) indicate that organizational culture plays a key role in whether your best performing and most engaged employees sink or swim. But when I say culture, I’m not talking about office perks, employee discounts or after-hours workout classes; I’m talking about respect.
In my years spent studying the impact of respectful leadership, one important commonality holds true: Respectful boundaries and communication are the cornerstones of any organization that strives to retain its top talent.
Consider a few hard-learned truths about your employees’ day-to-day realities:
- According to research by Christine Porath, professor at Georgetown University and author of Mastering Civility, nearly two-thirds of employees are treated rudely by a coworker, boss or customer at least once per month.
- Employees feel pressured to check work emails when they’re off the clock, which can lead to anxiety and cause excess strain on your team.
If you’re a leader who cares, then you’ll be alarmed by this data. It’s important to remember that most of us are not fitted with impervious suits of armor that allow disrespect to roll off our backs. The reality is, most of us experience negative thoughts and feelings when we feel disrespected. In fact, 80% of all employees will spend significant work time worrying about the disrespectful behaviors they experienced on the job.
At the same time, I’ve observed many people who feel that in order to be effective (or at least valued), they need to stay almost constantly connected to work. But, if the organizational culture is disrespectful, this need to be connected only reinforces feelings of negativity. So, given the data, do you really believe that the Friday beer cart or a ping pong table in the break room will do anything to calm an employee’s nerves when a condescending email lights up their phone screen on Sunday morning?
If your employees don’t feel respected by you, then all the coolest perks in the world won’t do a thing to make them want to stick around. Instead, their easiest solution in this time of full employment becomes to jump off the toxic merry-go-round on which they’ve found themselves. And when they leave, they take their talents, knowledge, experience and possibly a few colleagues with them.